Osler: Mentor-Protege relationship

From Osler by Charles Bryant (Oxford Univ. Press, 1997) p. 59 & 62

Origin of Mentor: (Greek legend) Ulysses, king of Ithaca went to Trojan war - leaving behind his wife Penelope and Telemachus under Mentor's care. Telemachus learned practical wisdom from Mentor, that can not be learnt from books.

Mentor-protege relationship can not be forced. The would-be mentor should have competence, character and patience. The would-be protege must show ability, enthusiasm and a willingness to help.

Their personalities should be compatible.

A shared sense of humor is highly desirable, since relationship should be fun.

In general, the story of Mentor-Protege relationship is as follows: The eager young man expresses interest in another's work, formed a bond, and received guidance, focus and affection.